You have to remember that when a person ‘abuses’ you verbally,
it gets your adrenalin racing. This is GOOD for you because it
‘motivates’ you to react or interact with the ‘abuser’. You are
being virtually ‘forced’ to take some sort of action.
Instead of just letting life pass you by without any interaction, you
suddenly have every reason to ‘react’ to something, albeit verbal
abuse or some other provocation. But nothing gets the mind up
into ‘alert mode’ quicker than a good old bit of ‘verbal abuse’.
You feel a compelling need to reply with your own position made
very clear. You usually need to stand your ground and come up
with all sorts of reasons WHY THEY are wrong to name-call you,
or whatever.
So, what do you do?
(Apart From Check Out My ‘Blog-Roll’ to your RIGHT over here).
You re-check what’s being said in the first place.
Is the remark justified?
If not, why not?
If it is, how can you make sure no-one can ever level the same
abuse at you again without good reason?
All these factors come into play to make YOU a BETTER person.
In a nutshell, ‘Verbal Abuse’ CAN benefit you as the receiver, so
the question now must be; “How can I ‘attract’ the right kind of
verbal abuse that can make me ‘REAL money’ and deliver
’success’ to me in spite of it”?
Because there are people who use the ‘awesome power’ of verbal
abuse to market products/services etc, and are HUGELY successful
because of it.
Would YOU feel comfortable using the very same concept, knowing
that the ‘abusees’ would later thank you for it?
Could you stand being told that; “you’re a lazy-good-for-nothing-time-
waster”?
Or that; “your life ’sucks’, and it’s going nowhere faster than the speed of light”?
Would statements like that get you ‘fired up’ to prove that person wrong?
I’m betting that they would, and the reason that YOU would benefit, is
because you’re also being ‘forced’ to check yourself out.
To re-evaluate your ‘direction’ and ‘achievements’ in life.
Could those abusive remarks actually have some seeds of truth in
them?
You will benefit yourself greatly by simply ‘looking in the mirror’, and
seeing who ‘really is’ looking back at you. We all need to do a ‘reality
check’ now and again, but most of us never do. We go on through life
assuming we’re on the right path. When in fact, we might have taken a
wrong turn some time ago and wondered off on a tangent that’s moving
us further and further away from our ‘desired’ ambition, or life-path.
So when you next ask if ‘Verbal Abuse’ can benefit YOU.
The answer must be a resounding YES!
If you’d like to receive some ‘genuinely helpful’ verbal abuse that will
not only make you more knowledgeable about yourself, but also make
you comfortably ‘Rich’ financially. Then please ‘click’ my name below,
and your wish will be granted.
Good Fortune,
